Lady’s you will never find the perfect husband all men are damaged and lacking for if He was not then you would not need God, for the only perfect if Christ Jesus and He is the only place you will feel totally fulfilled, if your husband is a real butt head maybe it is because you have set your standards so low that the Lord has allowed your husband to sink lower than your expectations to give you a better incentive to turn to Him, to look to Him to be fulfilled; do you honor your husband?

 

Husbands get your act together if you are having problems with your wife chances are you are not doing your part as the husband in the relationship; do you love your wife?

 

Ephesians 5: 21-33

Be subject to one another in the fear of Christ.

 

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Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.

For the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ also is the head of the church, He Himself being the Savior of the body.

But as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives ought to be to their husbands in everything.

 

i understand this is heard to take but the word subject to means;

(1). To be liable to, open to, exposed to and vulnerable to

(2). To be bound by, to be under control of, to be accountable to, to be constrained by

(3). To be dependent on, to hang on to , to be contingent on, and to be controlled by

(4). To be subject to The wife is to be humbly following Her own husband in all faith believing in Him and surrendering Herself to Him in all things.

 

Now before you get all worked up and in a up roar look at what the husband is responsible for

 

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Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless. So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, because we are members of His body.

 

So this is how a husband is support to be

(1). love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church

(2). Give yourself up for her, so that she may be sanctified. (Sanctified: to be blessed, dedicated, purified, holy)

(3). It is the Husbands responsibility to share and teach the word of God to His wife so that she may be made cleansed her by the washing of the word, so that He might present to Himself His Wife in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless.

 

So the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church and the Husband is to give Himself up for Her, to be Her protection and Her provider, provider of all needs just as Christ said He would provide all our needs,

 

The Wife belongs to the Husband just as we belong to Christ, He purchased us with His blood He gave His all for us and as a husband you should be willing to give our all for your Wife

 

By doing so you create an atmosphere in which the wife can surrender Herself to her Husband

 

 

Nevertheless, each individual among you also is to love his own wife even as himself, and the wife must see to it that she respects her husband

 

If you are having a problem with this read 1st Corinthians 13 to find out what true love is